YOU KNOW YOU NEED TO TALK

You don't know how to start

EVERY CHILD deserves FAIR WARNING about the dangerous content they could encounter through any digital device. As their parent, you are the best person to provide them with the SAFEGUARDING INFORMATION they need.

INTRODUCING

a relational approach to safeguarding children online

Giving you the tools to talk openly and honestly in six easy-to-follow lessons.

YOUR CHILD HAS BIG QUESTIONS

children need honest answers

  • exposure happens early

    More than 50% of children will be exposed to pornography before their 13th birthday. Sadly, 75% of parents believe it's not their kid.

  • porn sneaks past filters

    It is estimated that 80% of a child's first-time exposure to pornography occurs at home where we think children are most protected.

  • children keep dangerous secrets

    Children are increasingly targeted and can be groomed by online predators to send sexually explicit images and videos—most victims are girls, 11-13 years old.

I GET IT!

This is a tricky topic. It's normal to feel anxious or worried. We all worry we will say or do the wrong thing. But with this framework EVERY parent can begin healthy conversations. Tell me if you can relate?

  • You want to prepare a child with protective information.

  • You feel stuck on how to approach sensitive topics in age-appropriate ways.

  • You want your child to know you’re willing to talk about anything.

  • You want to help build your child’s confidence and self-esteem.

  • You’ve already brought up the topic of pornography but wished it had gone smoother.

  • You want to strengthen your relationship with your child.

YOU CAN TALK ABOUT PORNOGRAPHY WITHOUT IT BEING AWKWARD

Are you ready to overcome your worries and start the conversation your child needs?

YES! I'M READY

TESTIMONIALS

from parents just like you

Highly recommend for every parent!

Barb Winters

Every minute of this six-lesson course is full of wisdom. I love how Marilyn asks parents to uncover their family’s core values. Then gives clear, concise steps and guidelines on how to evaluate your view of pornography, talk it through with a trusted friend, and prepare to approach your child to talk about a difficult subject without putting words in your mouth or telling you what to think or say.

Wonderful help for parents!

Candace Larson

Talking to your kids about pornography can be tricky, no matter their ages. This course does a wonderful job walking parents through the process of getting off the fence and starting the conversation. It is very educational with practical steps and suggestions.

So important; very impactful.

Alex Sherlock

This course really opened my eyes to the importance of having open and honest communication with my kids about pornography. The modules gave me practical tactics and ideas on how to talk to my kids without making anyone feel awkward or embarrassed. This was a very valuable course and I would recommend this course to anyone who has children.

DID YOU KNOW?

Relying on tech solutions alone is not enough to protect children from the harms of pornography.

Quality filters, controls, and monitoring apps can be used as parenting supports. But they are not an all-in-one solution. There will always be gaps in the fence. Your relationship combined with honest communication is truly the best firewall you can implement to prepare your kids against dangerous online content.

WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT

When you enroll in GET OFF THE FENCE

  • Discover how some of today’s most common safeguarding practices could actually leave your child more vulnerable to dangerous content online.

  • Explore how your core values can be essential to establishing direction for healthy, ongoing conversations

  • Employ a simple and proven method to tame your biggest fears, worries, and concerns.

  • Brainstorm creative conversation solutions while building your own support network.

  • Develop your very own conversation framework customized for you and your child’s needs.

  • Use the downloadable workbook to evaluate, track progress, and keep the conversation moving forward.

Course curriculum

  • 1

    Get Off the Fence Method

    • Lesson 1 THE FENCE—What is THE FENCE and why do we get stuck here?

    • Lesson 2: Find Your Footing—Relying on core values to build confidence

    • Lesson 3: The Hurdles—Labeling the worries and what-ifs

    • Lesson 4: Walking & Talking—Testing the waters and building your team

    • Lesson 5: Your Words, Your Way—Putting the conversation on the table

    • Lesson 6: What's Next?—Creating a safe place to keep the conversation going
  • 2

    Course survey

    • A Few Quick Questions

EVERY CHILD DESERVES FAIR WARNING

In today's media-saturated world, it's not a matter of IF but WHEN a child will be exposed to pornography. They need a SAFE PLACE to turn to for HELP.

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OTHER DETAILS

you may be wondering about ...

  • How long will the course take?

    The course is designed for busy parents like you and can be completed within a week. Each lesson contains a short video plus additional exercises to be completed on your schedule.

  • How long will I have access to the course?

    You have lifetime access, including any future updates. I encourage you to review the lessons and concepts in GET OFF THE FENCE frequently.

  • What if I have questions?

    You can always get in touch with me at [email protected] if you have any questions about the course or need help ordering. I am happy to help.

WHAT PARENTS ARE SAYING

about GET OFF THE FENCE

5 star rating

Confidence booster!

Valerie Thomson

Taking this course is so helpful to build your confidence in talking about difficult conversations to children of any age. It can be hard to remove feelings ...

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Taking this course is so helpful to build your confidence in talking about difficult conversations to children of any age. It can be hard to remove feelings of guilt and shame and this course helps you to have conversations centered in love and curiosity. I am NOT a media savvy mom!!... so I really appreciate the expertise that Marilyn shares through her podcasts and this course.

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Overcoming an intimidating topic

Nadja Streiter

Talking about porn can feel really intimidating for parents. This course goes a long way in building a framework for how to have the conversation. Parents ar...

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Talking about porn can feel really intimidating for parents. This course goes a long way in building a framework for how to have the conversation. Parents are encouraged to draw on their own family values - none are imposed- to help their children navigate their inevitable exposure to pornographic images and content.

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CHANGE THE CONVERSATION

and help your child thrive in this media saturated world

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